Solely based on my actions and reactions. People who take a simple confirmation and turn it into a multi-line e-mail are, to me, frustrating. People who do that in time-sensitive contexts are memorably infuriating. Then again, I’ll write similar e-mails to people I don’t know on account of social convention.
I’ve never met a highly-productive person who doesn’t think similarly. This is true across cultures. It’s also partly a reflection of hierarchy. People who see each other as equals can (note: option, not obligation) dispose with certain niceties. (If I got a subject-only e-mail from a new hire, I might see that negatively.)
Shifting to friends, I don’t have many who confuse customs with respect. The two are, in my view, orthogonal.
Solely based on my actions and reactions. People who take a simple confirmation and turn it into a multi-line e-mail are, to me, frustrating. People who do that in time-sensitive contexts are memorably infuriating. Then again, I’ll write similar e-mails to people I don’t know on account of social convention.
I’ve never met a highly-productive person who doesn’t think similarly. This is true across cultures. It’s also partly a reflection of hierarchy. People who see each other as equals can (note: option, not obligation) dispose with certain niceties. (If I got a subject-only e-mail from a new hire, I might see that negatively.)
Shifting to friends, I don’t have many who confuse customs with respect. The two are, in my view, orthogonal.