> what you think should be true versus what actually is true

That's what laws are for. Shaping society so that it's like what we want rather than the jungle

> If you think women can afford to take the same risks as men when travelling

When did anyone in this thread ever say that?

> No, but if I were you I would at least consider that there might be a "misunderstanding" leading to you having to find alternative accommodation

I'd prefer to live in a world where I don't have to make that choice, hence society shunning people who would put others in that position