I am not sure I follow. Do you know of anyone in an open relationship who is in love and happy about their spouse fooling around with other people?

I know of none and I know quite a few people who did it, saw a couple of documentaries about it.

I am more than happy to be proven wrong but as far as I am concerned my point still stands and is fairly rational.

If you are in love, open relationships ain't what it's all pumped up to be.