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Re:OnlyFans, influencers, and the politics of selling nudes ... by solidasparagus on Thursday May 14, 2020 @07:49PM (#23187182)
I don't mean to be personal or rude - I only say this because someone said it to me once and it helped me.

Your experiences in comment threads are often a reflection of what YOU write. Hostile people get hostility, humble people often get humbleness in return. Looking at this comment thread, some of the problems you mention in this comment have come up and perhaps it's worth considering whether that is due to how you write your comments.

Re:OnlyFans, influencers, and the politics of selling nudes ... by DoreenMichele on Thursday May 14, 2020 @07:58PM (#23187255)
I've spent a lot of time in therapy. If it were somehow the way I write, I would be thrilled to pieces to learn that fact and correct it.

After nearly 11 years of being told things like "On the internet, no one knows you're a dog if you don't tell them" and having it suggested to me that if my gender is an issue, I should simply hide that fact, I'm pretty darn sure it's not the way I write. It's the way the world reacts to women.

Re:OnlyFans, influencers, and the politics of selling nudes ... by badrabbit on Thursday May 14, 2020 @11:03PM (#23188409)
I wouldn't even know you are a woman unless you told me. I personally don't keep track of who says what (with exception of a few famous people). On HN, I feel at home in that what is said is viewed as important, logical reasoning and reproducible process are valued from what I have seen.