I've been using about the same amount of time. Have you tried using python and bazel? Now there's some real weeping and gnashing of teeth ;) Lot's of bad code depending on python == python2 type of non-sense.
Javascript is another target that is just about as gnarly. The node module resolution algorithm is reimplemented a million similar-but-not-quite-the-same-ways by popular packages, most of which struggle dealing w/ symlink-heavy codebases (like bazel sandboxes).
This is really not my experience from having used Bazel with Go for the last four years. But I'm happy you are are apparently not running into issues.