People say that privilege isn't an attack. But when I search for it on my Facebook, 4 of the 5 were used to deride and the other is "May you, at least once, have the privilege of writing code that never goes away and is never looked at again."

Also if you search reddit for whether trans women or trans men possess male privilege you will find people arguing as if their life depended on it. And these people seem to very involved in movements where the use of the term is the most frequent so should be the most acquainted with it's use and definition.