Maybe there's a useful parallel to folks arguing that climate change isn't real when there's a bad winter (particular event vs the overall trend).
White privilege is having your application go through the first time because your name is spelled how webdevs expect.
White privilege is your assigned recruiter giving the extra 0.x seconds of time to look over your resume if they consider you as one of their tribe and "deserving" of placement. These judgments, while often rationalized consciously post-hoc, really mostly happen at the subconscious level before we're even aware that we're thinking about it.
White privilege is knowing where to start to achieve your goals because there are people in your community that can provide mentorship who have probably benefited from white privilege to the point that they can point you in the right direction and even give you some connections to break onto the scene.
etc.
Your "useful parallel" is relying on tokenism as a sort of reverse no-true-Scotsman attack.
- Having well educated parents able to help me with my school and putting an large emphasis on its importance
- Having both parents in the house
- Having access to, and the ability to participate in extracurriculars in school
Those are all correlated with my race, but there are also white people who lack them. Those are the many factors I was talking about. They are specific and identifiable.
The useful parallel is that people do a poor job of identifying trends, when counter examples to the trend exist.
No true Scotsman again. The counter examples do not negate the overwhelming influence of the causes to which the trend is attributed.
Your definition of "white privilege" assumes a complete homogeneity of experience that is absolutely not the case. Do you actually believe that all white people experience life in the exact way you described?
It is a given and openly acknowledged that not all white people have the same chances. But it doesn't seem particularly accurate to assert that a difference in equity is insignificant between folks who only differ in race because of some pre-existing intra-race variance.
Not all white people, but a large majority of white people, have it better off than most minority folks, with some notable exceptions.
I've seen it used most often to
- deride a person or group of people
- describe oneself in a funny way
- describe oneself in a way that is serious but ultimately in a positive light
Specific recent examples from my Facebook is whether voting for Biden is privilege or not voting for him is privilege or whether being pro quarantine is a privilege or anti quarantine is a privilege. The subtext is always you REALLY don't want to be on the side of the privileged.
Every single time it seems to make the argument dumber and nastier.