My wife’s side pressure her (me) to “upgrade” her wedding set every few years. WTF. They’re terrible with money, of course, and constantly make passive-aggressive comments about who’s spending what. I don’t think they even realize they’re doing it, it’s just a really, really awful and deeply middle-class-anxiety attitude they’re stuck in.

Heh I had to look up what a wedding set was. Upgrade... wedding rings? Isn’t a big part of the symbolism the permanence factor of the rings? The symbolism of upgrading the ring seems a bit unfortunate...

Anyway, sorry to hear, that probably gets really old.

The stone itself is supposed to be permanent; the band and the setting (receptacle for the stone) are less weird to change.

Interesting, that seems a bit diamond-industry-marketing-driven, I thought a band was the symbol, and that the stone was a more recent invention. Especially since the wedding band is what you get when you actually get married. Many people in my family only wear the wedding bands and leave the engagement rings off.

But these are largely just assumptions on my part.

LOL me too. They know I have rental properties but are always bitching about my small house and why I am not doing this or that. They don't know that my real estate portfolio is worth upwards of $5 million and when the mortgages start to be paid down, will eventually be generating $20,000 a month in rent. Look forward to telling them to get fucked when they come looking for some of that money.