Re:Tell HN: Call Mom
by chrisseaton on Sunday May 10, 2020 @12:37PM
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Maybe I'm sensitive, but it comes across as judgemental. 'Call mom' - I can almost feel the condescending do-gooder smile from here.
Re:Tell HN: Call Mom
by wurst_case on Sunday May 10, 2020 @12:51PM
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I have one of those hurtful abusive mothers and I can see that OP was just being nice, repaying a kindness he felt 6yrs ago like he said. You are being sensitive of you can't see that.
Re:Tell HN: Call Mom
by binaryblitz on Sunday May 10, 2020 @01:19PM
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Totally see where you're coming from, but I do think it's a nice reminder during quarantine. Time is passing so weirdly now, it's hard for me to keep track of what month we're in, let alone the date.
Re:Tell HN: Call Mom
by larrywright on Sunday May 10, 2020 @12:54PM
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To me, it’s just recognition that the type of people who frequent this site aren’t always good at remembering this sort of thing. It doesn’t apply to everyone, but I’m sure there are people who saw this and appreciated it.
>"today might be a good day to call your mother"
The OP doesn't qualify their premise with 'might'. ('May' only applied to video chat, specifically). The title is imperative, and there is a general claim of importance.
I'm not bothered personally, I just agree with chriseatons assessment of the tone.
The pedantry on this site sometimes is insufferable.
It's a little reminder for the oblivious and workaholics among us. Nobody is suggesting anyone call their mom if they hate her guts.
It's a nice reminder, don't see the OP post as "reconnect with your abusive parent" more like "today might be a good day to call your mother"