Re:Ask HN: Name one idea that changed your life
by tomp on Thursday May 07, 2020 @06:25AM
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Absolutely, and as I said, I support the mindset.
I just object to this line in your comment: To briefly sum up the findings
Re:Ask HN: Name one idea that changed your life
by ncfausti on Thursday May 07, 2020 @05:45PM
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Ah, I see! I agree. That paragraph is an excerpt from the website (as I was on my phone and didn't feel like summarizing the full theory).
On a macro level i.e. comparing people with vastly different circumstances/experiences/variables it does seem questionable, but on an individual level the change can be quite profound, going from a self-defeating to a more open/growth oriented mindset.
Also reminds me of one of my favorite quotes, by Henry Ford:
“Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.”
I haven't considered the research, I'm just talking about the positive changes I've seen in my life as a result of changing my mindset from "I can't do this because I'm not smart enough" to "this is hard, but I will learn it."
In the case of the former I was a non-starter. With the latter, everything becomes much more accessible.