I feel terribly for you. I can't imagine being in my own way so much that Apple's UI would give me physical anxiety.
I wish I didn't deal with this but a little sensitivity towards users like me would be nice instead of ironically writing us off as close-minded. I have diagnosed OCD and it's just a facet of that. It can be quite frustrating at times when I'm trying to use an interface and, say, intrusive thoughts lead me to repeating body movements like clicking or picking up and dropping my mouse and next thing I know my browser is closed and I've opened up another program without even realizing. Like it happens all day while I'm working and the more invisible my interface the better. It's not easy to overcome these physical impulses and reactions. I still deal with vocal tics and stuff like that.
I said a proper platform allows user control and customization over the interface, providing a way for users to continue using interfaces that make sense to them even if some young engineer at Apple finds a clever new way to shove some functionality into a screen gesture.
This isn't crazy talk. It's exactly how my Linux-based computer and Android-based phone operate and I've been using the same window manager / launcher for over a decade, while the mainstream default ones like Gnome 3 continue to make the strangest and most anti-user design decisions. I just bought a MIUI phone and if I couldn't flash my own Paranoid Android ROM in the coming weeks I would have to return this phone because the UI is bonkers.
> do all sorts of crazy cartwheels to satisfy some non-existent need.
OCD is a real thing and is quite debilitating for some. I suggest you read about BFRB's and similar disorders before again blaming me for a physical disorder I have limited control over. Physical therapy only does so much. But that's orthogonal to the fact that I expect a consistent interface on a philosophical level.
> Again, I feel sorry for you. I'm not responding any further but I wish you could get help instead of laying the problem at everyone else
Is this how you feel about users with tourettes, seeing/hearing/motor disabilities, etc. as well? Do you similarly mock them and blame them for their disorders?
If Apple would allow people like me to control the devices we buy, I would finally have a home in the mobile market.