Are "teens" born or made? An interesting twist.

Re:Are "teens" born or made? An interesting twist. by asolove on Monday March 07, 2011 @09:40PM (#2299601)

Remember that this feeling is not necessarily correct. Starting at 13 everyone feels they can be independent and take care of things better than everyone else, and (at least at 13) they are wrong. They are really asking to be challenged or given responsibility, and they probably will fail or need a lot of help.

But without the experience of that first failure, and overcoming it with the guidance and support of people around them, these teenagers continue to demand their independence and fail to find any proof of their own self-worth long into their twenties and middle age...

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Re:Are "teens" born or made? An interesting twist. by hasenj on Monday March 07, 2011 @09:55PM (#2299628)

> Remember that this feeling is not necessarily correct.

It is natural non the less.

> They are really asking to be challenged or given responsibility, and they probably will fail or need a lot of help.

So it's the responsibility of their parents and the society at large to help them become independent, instead of beating them down and accusing them of being stupid and irrational.

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