While being with a local bank would have helped (especially if we had any debt with them), their behavior doesn't put me in a big rush to give them business either.
I've never been naive, but the way America responded to this was with blatant corruption, and it's truly disheartened me. We've shown who we are in a very real way, and I say "we" because we're all complicit and responsible for it.
America is far too incompetent to plan for corruption in times like this. Just assume stupidity when it comes to bureaucracy. That was definitely the case here.
If it's one thing America needs more of, it's to stop scapegoating everything we can point the finger at and get back to working together knowing that it's OURS to fix.
*Rant over
The rest of your comment I agree with, but we have to start with a different belief system (I think anyway) before we'll ever be any good at the rest.