There are forums out there that teach you how to adjust the settings on your CPAP/APAP/BiPAP machines, including how to get into the "clinician mode" to make REAL adjustments (e.g., like pressing and holding two buttons down on machine for couple seconds puts you into clinician menu settings). There is also software out there that will let you download the data from the SD card in most machines to your computer and analyze it. This isn't terribly critical, but if you have motivation / need it is handy to know how to do this. Makes titration much faster/easier and with less trial and error.
sleepyhead is the name of software (open source, no long maaintained unfortunatly but entirely functional still). Just google for sleep apnea forums.
Good luck with your son and rest of family!
I "hack" (not really, just doing stuff / adjustments that clinics supposed to do) my machine for no other reason than they clinicians are useless once they sell you a sleep study and machine. You are typically on your own once you get it unfortunately, which is why the success rate of people using CPAP machines is usually pretty low. It can be a frustrating process without help and even if you do have good clinician, it is still frustrating to get used to it (some moreso than others).
This would actually be a good public service if they would do for free and provide to hospitals, etc. for emergency use.