I think thats a bit of an overstatement. Try it.
It's all well and good saying the driver should pay more attention - almost treating it like a normal tech product, I suppose, but most "tech" products don't control almost a Megajoule (mental maths might be wrong but you get the idea) of kinetic energy and the lives of the occupants of both the car and any others it hits.
I'm not saying that it's an impossibility to get it right, just that it needs to be held to even higher standards than the existing engineering present in the car (and planes if I'm being honest), not Sillicon Valley. Luckily this doesn't seem to be too much the case, but it could happen - the few people I know who own Tesla's are all non-car people ("What's suspension?"), i.e. The gadget-factor of the car is definitely attractive. Tesla do seem to be doing a pretty good job, so hat's off to them so far.
This keeps getting repeated and is complete misdirection. The barrier isn't intended to save lives from a headon crash, its to improve the slim odds of survival. Had the vehicle not accelerated toward it, chances would have still been grim.
Imo, noone should be operating a vehicle in this mode at high speeds.