> Taking direction or orders from a manager is only ever stressful if that manager doesn't take accountability for their decisions and directions.

This right here.

I will lead if you want. But then stop second guessing my decisions, and stop taking credit for my successes.

If you want to lead, fine. But then stop blaming me for failures, and admit when you screw up.

I am sick of being micromanaged and then blamed for when things go wrong.