Actually the real rich probably live in the same poor neighborhoods, or just one level up in modest houses. They drive similar old cars. They wear similar cheap clothes. You have to look a second time to realize that the cheap house has good paint on it (cheap enough that the poor sometimes buy it), and a few other details are slightly better. They have a ton of money in the bank and don't have to worry about it.

The pseudo rich with all the status symbols are generally more in debt than the poor person who needs to use a car title loan to get food at the end of the month!

Of course there are also the "filthy rich" with a ton of money with all the toys just like the pseudo rich. They are a minority of those living that lifestyle though.