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Re:Reasons not to become famous by mft_ on Sunday February 09, 2020 @06:28AM (#22281597)
Amen. My experience exactly.

I’ve tried to express this a few times online and fallen foul of offended introverts - my observation is that some people like to use the label of being an introvert as a shield or justification of (their dissatisfaction with?) their shy or antisocial behavioural traits.

Re:Reasons not to become famous by munificent on Sunday February 09, 2020 @12:30PM (#22283203)
Social anxiety, introversion, and antisociability are all different things that often get conflated.

If we replace people with ice cream, I think it works out something like:

* Social anxiety: I'm afraid I will choke on the ice cream.

* Introversion: Ice cream is fine but I don't really enjoy the flavor.

* Anti-social: Ice cream tastes gross.

These all manifest in the same visible way — avoiding ice cream — but the causes are distinct.

Re:Reasons not to become famous by PaulStatezny on Sunday February 09, 2020 @02:27PM (#22283826)
Interesting analogy.

From my perspective (as an introvert) I would replace the "Introvert" line with:

* Introversion: I may or may not enjoy ice cream, but eating very much makes me exhausted. (Or "I feel full after eating just a bit".)

From my perspective, your analogy makes the very mistake that the grandparent comment brought up: conflating introversion with not liking social interaction.

Re:Reasons not to become famous by munificent on Monday February 10, 2020 @01:39PM (#22291881)
Yeah, I like that better too. Especially the second sentence.
Re:Reasons not to become famous by jacques_chester on Sunday February 09, 2020 @08:51AM (#22282086)
Introversion is often confused with or confounded with other attributes. Sometimes when folks talk about introversion they are describing other things like social anxiety etc.
Re:Reasons not to become famous by paganel on Sunday February 09, 2020 @06:38AM (#22281626)
There’s nothing wrong with avoiding social relationships if that person so desires, if anything accusing said person of “antisocial behavioral traits” does more harm than good.
Re:Reasons not to become famous by williamdclt on Sunday February 09, 2020 @12:14PM (#22283109)
> There’s nothing wrong with avoiding social relationships if that person so desires

Well yes and no. Socially, that's nobody's business indeed. Professionally, that can be a problem or at the very least a weakness. Social relationship are a skill, being bad at it isn't neutral.

Sure you can be wanting to avoid social relationships while being good at it, but I doubt this is any sort of common.