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Re:Bail – Get out of your plans, guilt free by saber6 on Wednesday February 05, 2020 @04:38PM (#22251235)
To be fair I think this falls into the category of "ugh I'm not really feeling like going out... and I don't want to disappoint my friend.... if only I knew he wasn't too hot to trot tonight as well..."

But I understand your point and agree with you. I prefer direct communication. If you don't want to hang out just say so - I like clarity.

Re:Bail – Get out of your plans, guilt free by crdoconnor on Wednesday February 05, 2020 @06:57PM (#22252147)
in those instances I'm almost always glad I went afterwards even if I wasn't feeling "hot to trot" before.