I would honestly struggle to do that. When one side of the argument is effectively arguing for my own removal / loss of rights / loss of dignity, I don’t see how I can have a dialogue with them about anything, since they clearly see me as inferior / unworthy.

Brexit effectively ruined a few experiences for me, like pycon UK, and I’m really not looking forward to picking them back up or risk being in that position again, sorry. I respect everyone’s opinion until it starts making me an unperson, there I draw a line.