Re:Procrastination is about managing emotions, not time
by ck425 on Friday January 24, 2020 @03:41AM
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> Generally speaking, we know exactly what we need to get done
I don't agree. I still don't know what I really want to achieve in life. I have a better idea but honestly a big part of that better idea is realizing the things I thought I wanted aren't things I actually want.
Re:Procrastination is about managing emotions, not time
by criddell on Friday January 24, 2020 @10:40AM
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Thinking about what I want to achieve in life reminds me that I should buy a lotto ticket more often.
What I want from life isn't associated in any way with what I do to earn money and it's my need to earn money that stops me from living the life I want.
I think focusing on the far out end-goal/meaning of life, is actually just another fun distraction. ...as are most time-management tools.
Generally speaking, we know exactly what we need to get done, and the problem isn't figuring out the end goal, it is gaining the emotional strength to tackle the work we just don't want to do.
There is a time for future planning (2yr/5yr/10yr/etc...) - and that's something we should all schedule for a future planning session.
At 40, I'm still working on it. One thing I've noticed is the social component. Working alone is occasionally more efficient - but we are social creatures and being able to share your accomplishments and refine ideas with your teammates (whom you like and have a good friendship with) creates an ENORMOUS positive reinforcement.
tldr: Be an important part of a highly interdependent and high functioning happy team. There's just nothing else like it.