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Re:Low unemployment isn’t worth much if the jobs barely pay by CiPHPerCoder on Sunday January 12, 2020 @02:35PM (#22028624)
Here's my take on that: A marginal amount of gatekeeping is necessary for any group to maintain its group identity. The toxicity comes from the overdose, not the act itself.

A lot of "nerds" have personal insecurities and downtime. The potent mix of the two leads to more gatekeeping behavior than is necessary.

It's for this reason that many people (especially women, PoC, etc.) will be hostilely quizzed when they express an interest in something nerdy. It's not overt racism/sexism, so much as a "oh no, if they share my interests, I'm less special" sort of reaction.

Unfortunately, nerdiness doesn't strongly correlate with emotional maturity.

But things don't have to be this way. We all have the choice of what kind of person we want to be. Some people just choose very poorly-- short-sighted selfishness that hurts them long-term and everyone else at all times.

There are a lot of "nerdy" individuals who choose better. I'm happy to know of at least 100 in my industry.

Re:Low unemployment isn’t worth much if the jobs barely pay by quotemstr on Sunday January 12, 2020 @02:41PM (#22028671)
You're employing precisely the stereotypes that weberc2 mentions in his comment. You've presented no evidence. You've only invited readers to indulge their animus against your disfavored groups. This kind of rhetoric is unacceptable in other areas of society and it ought to be unacceptable here.
Re:Low unemployment isn’t worth much if the jobs barely pay by weberc2 on Monday January 13, 2020 @09:43AM (#22034822)
I don’t know why this is downvoted; this is exactly correct. These were the stereotypes I was referring to, employed without irony.
Re:Low unemployment isn’t worth much if the jobs barely pay by quotemstr on Monday January 13, 2020 @02:56PM (#22037962)
Lots of HN power users use the downvote button to defend the indefensible.