Re:YouTube Gives Us Love Without the Messiness
by asdfasgasdgasdg on Sunday January 12, 2020 @09:07AM
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Yeah you should definitely read the article. (I know it's against the rules to imply someone hasn't read the article, but since you outright said you didn't, I feel like this is in bounds.) It is about the simulated giving back of attention that certain YouTube videos do.
Re:YouTube Gives Us Love Without the Messiness
by mettamage on Sunday January 12, 2020 @09:08AM
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Thanks, so that means the title is clickbait, in my opinion.
Re:YouTube Gives Us Love Without the Messiness
by theterriblestid on Sunday January 12, 2020 @12:47PM
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Assuming by name, author is a βheβ
My original comment:
I watch YouTube a lot. About 2 hours daily at the moment and have subscribed to 300 channels. I see one huge issue with it.
It's a one-way interaction.
You give all your attention to them, but they don't give anything back.
This is not an issue if you use YouTube every once in a while, but I've noticed that for me it's becoming problematic. There are many great reasons for watching YouTube, but with this title (love without the messiness) this issue becomes a big thing quite quick.
Consider this: if I'd talk to a friend 2 hours per day versus watching YouTube 2 hours per day. What would be healthier? Well, if it's a good friendship, talking to a friend would be way healthier actually. And I actually know this, because I do tend to have a few friends that I talk a lot to. Both my friendships and my need for watching YouTube stem from similar/the same desires even.
But one gives you attention back, the other doesn't.
This problem was stated in the article, but it doesn't only pertain to ASMR or boyfriend hairdressers. It pertains to any video that has a personable approach.
That doesn't mean that a personable approach is bad. IMO, it's simply a strong reason as to why one shouldn't watch too many videos in general.