Re:Ask HN: I've been slacking off at Google for 6 years. How...
by arcticbull on Monday January 06, 2020 @09:04AM
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I think you underestimate the situation haha. Your perception of attractiveness is based on who’s around you. If the average around you is by New York standards a 5, then a 6 is above-average attractive. And a 7 is a solid catch.
Women in the Bay Area can easily score a few points higher than in more competitive cities and the opposite is true for men.
I don't think so. It's only when males are desperate to settle; living alone and spending their money on their hobbies/travel might be a much more attractive option to them than to bind to an unattractive female that went to SFBA specifically to capture a high-value male.