Re:Ask HN: I've been slacking off at Google for 6 years. How...
by JumpCrisscross on Monday January 06, 2020 @03:57AM
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> the Bay Area is among the worst places on Earth for improving your social life if you're straight and male
Why does social life only mean dating?
There are tons of social circles in the Bay Area. Hobbyist groups, aficionados of all stripes, non-profits galore and strange entertainment options. There is a diversity of bars and restaurants, and California’s unique outdoors are close.
Perhaps it would be more rewarding to focus on those, and be a little more passive when it comes to dating while you build up your interests.
Why does social life only mean dating?
There are tons of social circles in the Bay Area. Hobbyist groups, aficionados of all stripes, non-profits galore and strange entertainment options. There is a diversity of bars and restaurants, and California’s unique outdoors are close.
Perhaps it would be more rewarding to focus on those, and be a little more passive when it comes to dating while you build up your interests.