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Re:Ask HN: I've been slacking off at Google for 6 years. How... by baby on Sunday January 05, 2020 @09:48PM (#21966020)
> male SWE in the Bay Area making $120K+ a year in his 20s or 30s, who should be a magnet for women

here's your problem

Re:Ask HN: I've been slacking off at Google for 6 years. How... by meken on Sunday January 05, 2020 @10:02PM (#21966076)
Agreed. Money is a step function. You need to make enough to live comfortably. But after that, having good interpersonal traits is everything.