Usefulness or not, he's showing the signs of a thinking man in the works.
If I had an idea, and someone explained to my why it's no good, I'd be very pleased. I'd be glad they replied and told me something I didn't know. I'd consider it a reward; and a much more useful one than applause. I think that's the most sensible way to feel: applause is OK, but serious replies are even nicer.
That's textbook autistic thinking. Almost verbatim, that's the difference between autistic and non autistic responses to praise. You are completely justified in thinking that way about yourself (and I think the same thing).
But you also have to realize most people's brains aren't wired that way. Especially children who are also engaged in things like spontaneous sharing.
Anyhow, I agree that you should make personality-appropriate comments that the child will appreciate.
(I upvoted all your comments in this thread now. Please don't worry about karma.)
Also it's debilitating for a lot of people, many of whom lack so many mirror neurons they never learn how to communicate.
But there's another rather obvious possibility: the person running, and the person watching running, were both thinking about running. Their brain activity was similar because they were thinking about the same thing.
It's not true that for two people thinking the same thing, their brain scan looks the same, so your intuition is flawed. They are sure mirror neurons exist, and they know where in the brain they are.
I can give you a list of books on neurology and autism to read. But I don't want to hunt papers on the web, decide on the best ones, read them all and find one to recommend to you, sorry. I'd hunt down VS Ramachandrans recent work if you wanted to find one, but he is more of a theorist then the researcher who proves the theory, so I'm not sure if that's quite what you want.
http://www.edge.org/3rd_culture/ramachandran06/ramachandran0...
Could you give one reason to suppose that mirror neurons are a hardware feature -- a type of neuron -- not a software feature -- a particular strategy/mental-technique for using one's neurons?
Therefore the "software" theory seems much more plausible.
Simply, the brain models it's environment. That is all there is to it. A flower is a flower is a flower.
That'd be like me going up to Buckminster Fuller and saying "I don't think those dome things will work because I played with legos as a kid and don't see building it out of legos."
Or going up to Einstein and saying "I don't think your special relativity is good because I threw rocks at each other and then away from each other, and I didn't notice it happen."
You're a bit out of your league here, is what I mean to say. The point of Ramachandran's writing is to persuade people who know neurology, not to teach it to laypeople who don't have the intellectual integrity to admit they are out of their league.
I do know that your arguments from authority are invalid.
Appeals to legitimate authority are valid.
(disclaimer: Ramachandran is one of my biggest intellectual heros)
I emailed you two passages from Ramachandran's essay. Could you confirm that they are representative of his view, and not out of date?
I'm sorry, I can't talk to you, my mail client says you're a spammer.
Do you think this is an accurate statement about mirror neurons?
http://www.edge.org/3rd_culture/ramachandran/ramachandran_p2...
Anytime you watch someone else doing something (or even starting to do something), the corresponding mirror neuron might fire in your brain, thereby allowing you to "read" and understand another's intentions, and thus to develop a sophisticated "theory of other minds."
And this from the next page?
Denying [one's own] paralysis is odd enough but why would a patient deny another patient's paralysis? We suggest that this bizarre observation is best understood in terms of damage to Rizzolatti's mirror neurons. It's as if anytime you want to make a judgement about someone else's movements you have to run a VR (virtual reality) simulation of the corresponding movements in your own brain and without mirror neurons you cannot do this.
The second one I think is true and an extremely elegant solution for a bizarre neurological phenomena.
And critiquing Ramachandran's neurology on the basis of an epistemology ignorant of neuroscience seems a lot like critiquing Newton's physics on the basis of an astrology ignorant of astronomy. (this is hard for me to admit, my training is as a philosopher).