But about the smaller stacks other environments have: That's quite often because you either don't need additional parts (e.g. there's no desire for a huge Django template "community") and/or because other stacks are more full-fledged and thus the horizontal size is a lot smaller, with no need for umpteen state management solutions, state management solution helpers and state management solution application templates.
Dashboards could probably serve as a whole different topic. It was easy to beat the old school ones, where Perl CGIs roamed the prehistoric landscape. More modern CSS, and JS graphs alone beat the old rrdtool setups you often saw.
Besides, it took me a long to leave pug/stylus, I'am still not sure if a pug-based SSR is still the best way to get stuff out of the door. But again, opting for an 10 years old stack let you miss lot of things (eg maintainability of react code is top-notch).
When it comes to generating dynamic or static web page content, the pathological framework-aversion of the Go community strikes hard. Probably nothing that doesn't use the built-in Go templates with any sufficient user backing. This doesn't appear to be a language that can birth something like RoR.
As for the maintainability of react, I'm not so excited. It's a pretty decent templating system, and it seems easy enough to compose components, but beyond that it's each to their own, with some approaches being better than others. And redux still doesn't grab me as that great, it's just the sheer amount of developers resulted in a nice toolset. Whether it's frontend or backend, the twin async and dependency hells of JS don't manage to make me sleep any better, either.
I don't give a flying frick for age myself. Sure, there's less tooling for partials than for components, but that might have a reason.
To your points, I still think a proper SPA without any quirks such as DHTML, React Suspense, etc. gives the best UI for dashboard and logged-in kind of uses cases. However, having mixed environments is from a production and dev perspective subpar and hence you end up with setups like Next (SSR) with some Next pages having a stronger SPA notion (SPA within SSR).