What's the chance of the grid going down? What's the cost of it? Is the expected value significantly higher than a power generator? Congrats, you just bought a power generator.
Backbone down would cause you huge financial losses? Well, whaddaya say, let's build more backbone.[1]
Any redundancy that costs significantly less than the losses it mitigates will be built. The only reason we're not seeing a private NATO yet is that it costs more than pretty much any company makes. But 5,000 people security forces? Damn skippy those exist[2]
[1] https://engineering.fb.com/data-center-engineering/building-... [2] https://www.businessinsider.com/facebook-off-duty-police-off...
It's not unreasonable to be more concerned about an open source library disappearing than say, postgresql or mysql disappearing. No macho posturing required.
Let's say I'm working front-end web development. My "critical path" might include: js bundler, some kind of application framework, various libs, etc. The scope of my work (and authority/responsibility) informs what I can reasonably have under my control.
There is no bright line delimitating what's on the "critical path" and what's not. Your servers? The electric grid? The datacenter? The backbone(s) it's connected to? The judicial system making contracts enforceable? NATO? Name any two that straddle the line, and anybody can come up with something in between them, because it's a continuum.