I have an invisible illness, after seeing more physicians that I can count. The conclusion appears to be some neurological issues with connective tissue problems which result in chronic pain and fatigue most likely caused by antibiotic I took 7 years as symptoms started right after my allergic reaction.

I got married after symptoms began. It was not easy but life doesn't stop. I'm still coming to terms and searching for something that works meds/supplements/physical therapy. However, I don't considered myself disabled even though this is quite limiting and I require more rest.

I think once one accepts your alignment and find ways of still being a member of the society, one will have a much better luck dating. I think the depression that these problems bring is just really hard to deal with and affects people around us.