Re:Ask HN: What's the most valuable thing you can learn in a...
by rbavocadotree on Wednesday November 20, 2019 @10:15AM
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This is a great start. You should spend an hour a week having a conversation about your shared future, whatever that may mean to you.
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Re:Ask HN: What's the most valuable thing you can learn in a...
by Broken_Hippo on Wednesday November 20, 2019 @12:46PM
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I don't think my spouse and I could fill an hour a week with this - plus we would dread the conversation. It sounds like work.
Don't get me wrong, we talk about it. If one of us has thoughts about it, we share at the time or soon after. But it isn't like we lead busy lives or have children or in general, have a lot of upheaval in our lives. We are both over 40, and aren't changing rapidly at this point. There simply isn't that much to discuss.