No, you voted at the democratic election. There is no question on the ballot asking whether or not you consent to be ruled by the resulting government.
For example, it's Ok for Russian Federation to kill their own or foreign people (e.g. British citizens), or start a war just to increase their profit from their natural gas.
What's different about their armies and ours ? I mean when was the last time citizens of a democratic republic gave their input on what assassination to carry out or war to wage ?
There is definitely a point about overt, extreme abuse against their own citizens being mostly prevented by representative democracy. But nothing about general consent or agency.
- No eternal leaders. - Freedom of expression - Separation of powers that limit each other
Oh? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_monarchy_referendums
>Freedom of expression
In democracy, your country is your property, so you were given your share of your country at your birth, with corresponding benefits and obligations.
In despotism, country, including citizens, is owned by despot, so citizens inherit obligations only.