If you want your experience to be known, consider writing Gavin Newsom to tell him what you think about PG&E's failing infrastructure, or about what it's like to have a zombie hiding behind bankruptcy power your home: https://govapps.gov.ca.gov/gov40mail/
The point is that the vocal "tech elite," in particular those who live and/or work in SF City and County, had no outage and thus have no incentive to pressure positive change. Those affected the most have essentially no leverage against PG&E's negligence.
While I certainly respect your claim of personal liberty, the reality is that the State’s power infrastructure isn’t going to get any better without a major outside influence. The “tech elite” have the disposable time, income, and, well, technological knowledge to make that happen. (PG&E’s bankruptcy has also essentially stonewalled any sort of democratic effort). But the majority aren’t going to get up and do something unless it’s a conspicuous piece of the puzzle they’ve laid out before them. Especially not the new grads doing coke, making $300k per year, and spending two hours a day in a bus on the 101.