I refuse to use pronouns for people outside the binary and I'll only use the pronouns they have claimed.

I think this is a state and corporate power issue. I have never in my life been compelled to say certain words or risk losing my professional reputation, access to SO and more, but I can't, in good conscience, participate in this Orwellian social experiment I have never been asked my opinion of and for which, even the slightest deviation from the company line earns one virtual persona non grata status.

I'll use 'they' and be done with it.