My time is worth more risk wise then some investors bottomless pit of fund dollars (cough SoftBank cough).
If you want to issue options, no right of first refusal. You have to allow the transfer of your shares on a secondary market for accredited investors. You have to provide a cap table to all shareholders, as well as dilution and preferred share info. You have to hand over a 409A valuation annually to all shareholders.
You don’t have to go to the public markets, but you also don’t get to treat common shareholders (usually employees granted ISOs) as second class citizens. If private markets are the new public markets, we still regulate the private markets, just a bit less so.
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But your tone in treating employees and shareholders was very antagonistic. The vibe in startups has always been "we're in this together." Not, "I'm the boss/investor and you're the cog."
I think the 'vibe' is part of the problem. It's somewhat dishonest.
Why do all companies need to be 'family?' Can't we just respect each other as we get the job done and go home to our actual families? The 'company culture' is a ruse to get employees to have loyalty where the company does not reciprocate.
reminds me a bit of the blog post: <https://www.yegor256.com/2015/10/06/how-to-be-good-office-sl...