I have 2 recessive things that I know I carry, thanks to genetic screening. If I boinked a half sibling, they'd probably be a carrier of 1 of them, and there's a 50-50 chance any resultant offspring would have the conditions.
(Neither would be fatal but both would be severe chronic things-- e.g. hemachromatosis.
There's probably other rarer recessive things that I'm a carrier of and don't even know about.
...you could take steps to assure safety first, thanks to genetic screening.
It's selfish behavior on both the donor and the recipient, and who ends up paying for it are the offspring and most likely society as well.
No, but we're in a large society where men can and do have sex with women (consensually or not) once and leave them pregnant. I'm not making a moral judgement, I'm saying that mostly anonymous sperm donations have been happening long before IVF and sperm banks were a thing, so the results aren't as unpredictable as you paint them.