It's your responsibility to work on a team that handles bugs like adult engineers rather than school children or politicians. Engineers have a duty to be spokespersons for rational and humane engineering processes.

I've shipped more than my share of bugs live. I've never felt like I didn't have a team behind me. Obviously I shipped a lot of things that work, as well.

Working someplace humane and rational doesn't just happen, it requires work.

I expect anyone with "Senior" in their job title to do that work, both in terms of setting team culture and establishing post-mortem policies with management.