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Re:I used to fear being a nobody, then I left social media by gnicholas on Tuesday October 01, 2019 @01:31PM (#21128121)
I think the problem is that social media usage is on a continuum, and you can find yourself at a local maximum that is well below your global maximum. For example, if you check FB once a day, then maybe you would be somewhat happier if you increased to 2x or 3x daily. But if you decreased your usage to once weekly, then you'd actually be much happier. The problem is that you'd have to go through the "valley" of once every 3 days and once very 5 days before you get to once a week. There's also the fact that FB sets up the bday posting stuff to encourage you to log on every day.

I wish there were ways to distinguish between periodically checking FB and essentially being addicted to it (several times daily use). Perhaps we could employ language like "I use FB" versus "FB uses me". Only half-joking...

Re:I used to fear being a nobody, then I left social media by zcrackerz on Tuesday October 01, 2019 @01:42PM (#21128276)
I stopped posting happy birthday's on FB because it's always someone's birthday. Occasionally I will wish a close friend a happy birthday, but usually through text message. It's also annoying on my birthday when all these people I barely know come out of the woodwork to comment. I usually ignore FB that day, then reply to all with a thank you the day after.
Re:I used to fear being a nobody, then I left social media by jbverschoor on Wednesday October 02, 2019 @02:37AM (#21133888)
One of my best friends has his birthday on fb set to a different date. Always funny to see :-)