I used to fear being a nobody, then I left social media

Re:I used to fear being a nobody, then I left social media by philpem on Tuesday October 01, 2019 @11:51AM (#21126753)

I've gone the same way with Twitter -- from massive amounts of tweeting to posting fairly regularly on here. Though not to the 17,000 points scale... I was around the 700 mark last time I looked (I don't look at the number very often).

The difference for me is, on Twitter you get people quote-RTing you to ask their friends to hate you. Here... it's a relatively polite reply explaining why I'm wrong (and I often am!) in their perspective. Or that I've missed some key point which utterly skewers my argument.

Maybe it's more like giving up meth and replacing it with codeine...

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Re:I used to fear being a nobody, then I left social media by iikoolpp on Tuesday October 01, 2019 @12:04PM (#21126978)

> Here... it's a relatively polite reply explaining why I'm wrong

I've never found this. It's generally a three hundred word roundabout way of saying "You're an idiot" to fit in the faux civility guidelines.

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Re:I used to fear being a nobody, then I left social media by martin_a on Tuesday October 01, 2019 @12:08PM (#21127048)

Yes. Somehow you have to play along, otherwise someone will point out that "non-substantial comments are not welcome here".

Point is: Sarcasm works best when writing somewhat snarky. But probably most HN readers don't understand sarcasm and that's the problem. (See what I did there?)

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Re:I used to fear being a nobody, then I left social media by SubuSS on Tuesday October 01, 2019 @03:59PM (#21129889)

I have always been curious about this: Are you for real saying you can take an "You're an idiot" comment with the same equanimity as the 300 word option? Email/Forums etc already loses a ton of context. Merge that with semi-anonymity - I don't know how you can do it better with a short form answer.

IOW - Your comment is ignorant :D

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Re:I used to fear being a nobody, then I left social media by rconti on Tuesday October 01, 2019 @01:38PM (#21128220)

Twitter is a toxic cesspool and I can't fathom the value people get out of it. I don't CARE about influencers think, I don't WANT to see the most re-tweeted comment.

Whereas FB is more "flat"; I see what people who I actually care about post. Nice vacation, hey, your kid did something unremarkable, cool, you got a new dog.

If your usage pattern is to try to game the system and gather likes and shares, you're probably not someone I'm interested in, hence my distaste for twitter, or, generally, 'following' anyone I'm not personal friends with. Twitter seems to be setup for the latter; I keep trying to like it and use it, but I get uninteresting shit from the "public" figures I try to follow; eg, race drivers I'm interested in, cybersecurity figures, etc.

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Re:I used to fear being a nobody, then I left social media by jandrese on Tuesday October 01, 2019 @01:45PM (#21128340)

Twitter is for the most part as toxic as you make it. You have to be willing to aggressively cull the people you follow, and there are always promoted Tweets in there possibly crapping over your nice timeline, but you can make a pretty nice place by being selective in who you follow.

Also, if you care at all what your "score" is on a social media site you will grow to hate it. No matter what the site is remind yourself it always has Who's Line rules: The points don't matter. If you're not an asshole they tend to just come naturally with time. If you're being hidden because your score is too low then you should probably step back and ask if you really want to be part of that community, since you seem to be so at odds with it.

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