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Re:Men Are Waiting to Share Some Feelings (2018) by fapjacks on Saturday September 28, 2019 @05:36AM (#21099397)
This is stoicism though. To process things instead of holding them inside, bottling them up, or putting them off such that they salt our enjoyment of life. However there's a social component of this feelings-sharing which is the subtext of the parent comment. Not all issues need to be shared, and in fact it's a kind of emotional vampirism to prioritize sharing emotional context without focusing on the explicit purpose of sharing to process and confront the issue.
Re:Men Are Waiting to Share Some Feelings (2018) by weberc2 on Saturday September 28, 2019 @09:50AM (#21100261)
Agreed. What dang referred to admiringly as “integrated masculinity” sounds a lot like stoicism to me.