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Re:Almost one in five men admits to having no close friends,... by hombre_fatal on Sunday September 22, 2019 @01:33PM (#21042625)
Someone wrote this and had deleted their comment when I went to reply to them, but I thought it was on point, so now I'm saying it:

Curious, why you took offense to OPs post? If you are enjoying not having close friends, then good for you, really. This thread doesn't apply to you.

You remind me of Ricky Gervais' Guitar Lessons bit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L3dxMGzt5mU

In summary, it's like calling up a guitar teacher and telling them you don't want to learn guitar. Why call?

Re:Almost one in five men admits to having no close friends,... by garmaine on Sunday September 22, 2019 @01:39PM (#21042666)
I didn’t take offense. Did it read that way?

He is on a self-professed quest to cure loneliness, and seems to equate that with not having close friendships. I just want to make sure he is aware there is a distinction and not everyone classifies that way.

Re:Almost one in five men admits to having no close friends,... by omginternets on Sunday September 22, 2019 @01:58PM (#21042803)
>He is on a self-professed quest to cure loneliness

It seemed to me that he was on a quest to cure his loneliness.

Point is: It's interesting (perhaps even revealing) that you read it differently.

If it's not a problem, then it's not a problem. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

Re:Almost one in five men admits to having no close friends,... by garmaine on Sunday September 22, 2019 @02:37PM (#21043057)
If so, I misread it. But going back I still can't see that interpretation.

> The lofty goal of the startup was to "cure loneliness" but I never told the users that.

And then he talks about building features for users to take their conversations offline. I mean maybe it was all for himself, but it seems like the goal was to get users to build long-lasting relationships.

Which is commendable, and I commend him for it. It sounds like an awesome project.

Re:Almost one in five men admits to having no close friends,... by jackbravo on Tuesday September 24, 2019 @07:00PM (#21065583)
With his ending I also implied it was to cure his loneliness:

> If I were lonely today, I would say...

Re:Almost one in five men admits to having no close friends,... by lonelappde on Sunday September 22, 2019 @06:50PM (#21044489)
There's probably a correlation between being happy with no close friends and being misanthropic in general.