interviewed with a know-it-all type sr. engineer once, and he asked me an incredibly defensive question like, "why would i use a graph database instead of postgresql, it cant do anything that can't be done in postgres!?!?"

i'm no expert on any of this, but my response was still sufficient to get hired: you don't need a graph db, but it's easier to understand what cypher is doing than what sql is doing... that means more productivity to your lower-cost junior developers.