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Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by colechristensen on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @11:08AM (#20996045)
There isn't a situation where a 74 year old has sexual contact with a 17 year old on a billionaire's private island in which everyone is willing and happy with what is happening.

It is extremely doubtful that a young woman would find herself in that situation in any other way than a long path of abuse and desperation.

Taking advantage of that young woman is immoral.

That isn't some puritanical, anti-sex philosophy that hates fun.

That is empathy to the all too common situation of young vulnerable women being used for pleasure.

Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by cf141q5325 on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @11:35AM (#20996440)
I dont necessarily disagree with your assessment, however i am sure someone could also tell you how sex before marriage has an absolutely horrible impact on the people involved or how your assessment would also be true for prostitution in general. You likely heard "the speech" before when it comes to abortions.

In the end its weighing off protecting people from a presumed risk against infringing on their self determination. The question is clear cut when it comes to kids as we as a society accepted that their self determination isnt that great and infringing on it is fine most of the time. They have to brush their teeth, they dont get to drink alcohol and they cant work in a brothel.

The question here is does the same rule for a 8 year old apply for a 17 year old. Most European societies see a huge difference when it comes to age and that the ways in which the self determination of a 17 year old can be restricted are a lot more limited. In the end infringing on someones self determination is just too grave of a violation to do it unless its absolutely necessary.

What is instead illegal is not the action of the person presumed to be needing protection but make sure that exploiting that person is illegal. The Switzerland example still had it illegal to encourage or coerce girls to work in a brothel, which in practice means there was no one willing to risk running such a brothel.

And again, this discussion misses the point. Its not why did Eppstein run a brothel on an island but how come he was able to engage in sex trafficking, coercing of minors and all of that under the nose of quite a lot of politicians.

Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by coryfklein on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @01:52PM (#20998090)
You think there doesn't exist a single mentally healthy middle-class 17 year old girl who would have sex with an elderly man for a large sum of money? That only the poor disadvantaged girls solicit sugar daddies?

This idea is counter-intuitive to me. When I was 17 my religious convictions prevented me from having sex with anyone, but I imagine that without those beliefs I would have at least put _some_ dollar figure on the price for me having sex with a 74 year old woman, and I certainly didn't have any history of abuse or desperation.

Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by widowlark on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @02:18PM (#20998401)
The law has been set to prevent children from being taken advantage of by adults. Being capable of making the decision and being able to make the decision properly are two different things - the law is there to protect you even when you don't think you need it. At 17 I didn't think a lot of things were good for me. It would have been easy for someone to trick me into doing something I shouldn't - that benefits them way more than it does me. What you are suggesting is that we should be okay with this. The law, precedent, and public opinion all disagree with you.
Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by coryfklein on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @03:52PM (#20999356)
> What you are suggesting is that we should be okay with this.

Anyone who can read my comment above can see clearly that you are putting words in my mouth.

> The law, precedent, and public opinion all disagree with you.

Except for all the places where law, precedent, and public opinion agree with an age of consent of 17?

The whole point is that there is not one single hard and fast rule that defines the boundaries of ethics in prostitution. So many of the comments here (including yours) portray a complicated situation as clearly black and white. Of course it doesn't help that in this particular case many folks are talking past each other because we're all intermingling various interrelated topics:

* Stallman's remarks and forced resignation

* The age of consent

* The specific case of Epstein's island

* Prostitution

I suspect that if we were to explicitly comment specifically on one point or the other that we'd all find we agree much more that we appear to.

Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by DanBC on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @03:58PM (#20999427)
Anytime sex with children comes up there are dozens of HN accounts who'll post mind-boggling shit. "But is abuse really that harmful?", "consensual paedophilia isn't so bad", "prostitution is the same as a burger flipping job but better paid", "well, okay, this child was kidnapped, drugged, and raped and then sold via small ads for further rape, and everyone involved knew that, but do we really want to stop those ads? Isn't that the start of a slippery slope?".

It's really fucking creepy.

Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by chungus_khan on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @02:07PM (#20998267)
There certainly do exist situations where that could happen. Epstein's island really isn't one though...
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Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by widowlark on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @06:53PM (#21000890)
>young women

children*

>sugar daddies

abusers

Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by blub on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @11:19AM (#20996183)
In Berlusconi's ~75yo case he was acquitted of having sex with a 17yo because the "fact is not a crime". Then he was accused of bribing witnesses 10 million €, so I guess we have to wait and see.

Definitely morally dubious, especially in his case. It's not clear if the girl did it for money, or was more or less nudged into this by her life circumstances.

Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by EpicEng on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @11:44AM (#20996560)
>It's not clear if the girl did it for money, or was more or less nudged into this by her life circumstances.

I don't imagine there are any 17 year old girls having sex with 74 year old men who see a distinction between those two things.

Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by hutzlibu on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @09:39PM (#21001748)
"There isn't a situation where a 74 year old has sexual contact with a 17 year old on a billionaire's private island in which everyone is willing and happy with what is happening."

How about, if the old person would be mick jagger? I could imagine, he still has his charms to some. Also I have seen young attractive women aproaching old yoga gurus for example ..

But yeah, the old guy wasn't mick jagger, nor a yoga master and at best he did assume the girl was a 18+ old prostitue doing it willingly for money and power.

Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by collyw on Wednesday September 18, 2019 @03:35AM (#21003115)
If you offered enough money I am sure a fair number of 17 year old would be happy to accept. I have seen girls auctioning off their virginity after all.
Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by Digory on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @11:25AM (#20996285)
It is striking to see you say it, given the decades of immense cultural pressure to convince young Americans that of course you should be willing and happy to seek out sex with old billionaires -- it's fulfilling!

It's so hard to imagine the origins of the Playboy-era now. But it was dominant among the educated classes through the 80s or 90s. The change is mostly for the better. I suppose the pendulum will swing again some day, but likely not in my lifetime.

Re:Richard M. Stallman resigns by nailer on Tuesday September 17, 2019 @12:47PM (#20997299)
Women and men trade resources for sex all the time. Are you aware of engagement rings?

The only issue here is the age of the girl involved.