I don't think you can extrapolate the whole tech profession from one man's unhealthy outlook.

Why we work and why we mate are all part of our survival, and that's what generates these thoughts.

If I don't explain thoughts I've had and transcended in the past, that are tied to work and survival, what use is the conversation, am I shamed for sharing another aspect? or is it just too loosely related in your view.

I have no idea what you are trying to say.

But I will say this: stop blaming women for your shortcomings.

Yes this is excellent advice

You should definitely find a new employer if your current environment is reflective of the comment that you were responding to. I can't even imagine working somewhere like that.

Imagine going from the professional setting to the setting where you have to attract a mate.