That doesn't make sense. Is the African woman living in a straw hut starting her basked weaving business with a micro-financing loan for $50 in a position of great privilege? Is the unemployed construction worked who starts his own repair business in a position of great privilege? I mean I've tried to interpret your remark in several ways, but none of them make sense.

Anyway, listing the disadvantages of something isn't complaining, it's just being realistic.

Not sure if this was meant for me or not, but I hope I didn't come off as complaining in that post. I just wanted to make sure people thought about the personal side of things before diving into it. People tend to overlook the spouse's point of view, and I wanted to make sure I pointed that out.

I don't think it came off like that at all. I think you sounded realistic and pragmatic.

My spouse does add extra pressure, though not on purpose...it's just there. However, I'm permanently unemployable, so what else can I do? :)