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Re:Paternity Leave Was Crucial After the Birth of My Child by michaelt on Tuesday August 13, 2019 @04:50AM (#20683865)
Pumping isn't great, but compared to being woken up two or three times a night, every night, for months on end? I think judged relative to that alternative pumping is not as difficult as you make it sound.

And a man who can't disinfect and clean bottles is going to hate it when he finds out about diapers :)

Re:Paternity Leave Was Crucial After the Birth of My Child by tathougies on Tuesday August 13, 2019 @06:29PM (#20690901)
> And a man who can't disinfect and clean bottles is going to hate it when he finds out about diapers :)

Where in my post did I say men can't do this? I just said it is many times more inconvenient for a man to do this, than for a woman to breast feed. Inconvenience experienced over time is another way of saying stress.

Honestly, I'm going to bow out of the conversation now. I realize that my wife and I make several choices to maximize our convenience that would seem odd to other couples. My basic idea is to just go with the way natural selection made your bodies act and don't add pressure to do anything different. It's much much much easier that way.

Re:Paternity Leave Was Crucial After the Birth of My Child by cloverich on Tuesday August 13, 2019 @05:15PM (#20690338)
> compared to being woken up two or three times a night, every night, for months on end

You still need to wake up to pump, and whether pumping or breastfeeding it does not change how many times you (the baby) wake up at night in general.