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Re:Anxiety Looks Different in Men by ZitchDog on Monday August 12, 2019 @10:14PM (#20682201)
Not OP, but I had a similar experience. Getting to the root of things with CBT caused me to completely change my relationship with alcohol. At this point, heavy drinking has become a clear path to increasing my anxiety, and it’s easy to abstain.
Re:Anxiety Looks Different in Men by szemet on Tuesday August 13, 2019 @12:21AM (#20682814)
Not OP, and kind of cliché (with the common corollaly to seek professional advice instead of internet wisdom), but:

excercise - and for me it was more anxiety+smoking but less anxiety led to less drinking too(which I did not recognize as a problem at the time)

I consciously used it as a replacement: when I was stressed and need of a cigarette, I told myself that I actually feel the miss of a good run - and for me running really helped somewhat, so it was enough to start a positive feedback loop. It is also good that both drinking and smoking makes excercising harder, which I tried to (and many times could) use as a fact against them ("if i now drink i wont be able to wake up early enough to go for a run", "if i smoke it will much harder to breath")

And another internet wisdom cliché ;) regarding anxiety: stop drinking coffee (tea...)...

Re:Anxiety Looks Different in Men by alien14 on Thursday August 22, 2019 @07:40PM (#20773384)
How did you practice CBT? Yourself? With a therapist? A workbook?