Here's the problem: If I took what you just stated and replaced "excluded male" with "African American" it would make just as much sense and be a societal force going back hundreds of years. Yet there's a segment of society that claims that racial equality is already achieved and the African American community is solely responsible for its own problems. In fact, this is often the same segment that complains loudly about how society excludes males. This is why it's hard to take the "excluded male" argument seriously sometimes.