You say that as if it's not males enforcing stereotypical toxic behaviour.

on the contrary, the sexual selections of females reward "toxic" behavior (confident, dominant, selfish, disagreeable), and punish guys who are socially inept toxic little worms (needy, people-pleasing, over-intellectual, "safe"). Who reproduced, the guy capable of killing multiple potential rapists? Or the guy that let's his wife get taken cause he just couldn't engage in violence cause it's 'wrong and bad and toxic'