I've been in such a team.
Pairing was optional, but the team chose to do it, so everyone on the team had to do it.
It wasn't "forced" because I "always had the option to quit the job".
It was hell.
Re:The art of interrupting software engineers
by jacques_chester on Monday July 29, 2019 @10:32PM
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I'm sorry that your experience was hell. My experience has been different. That doesn't detract from yours.
And as I noted above, pairing isn't mandated. Teams are free to adopt any process they please, but most folks at Pivotal like the defaults and we tend to gravitate to them.